Some people spreadhappiness wherever they go, while others whenever they go! Sounds quite familiar, right? Well, you don’t have to wait for the person to disappear for embracing happiness. You don’t need to, provided you start liking people you dislike.
Agreed there are more and more of them bugging you and making life hell for you, however it’s very much within the realm of possibility to cope with them, without you losing your temper.
Without any further delay, follow the following and start un-hating others!
You Are A Master Of Your Destiny
Nobody but you and only you can decide the course of your life. No one on this earth can insult you or make you feel inferior unless you allow them to do so. So instead of filling yourself with hatred and anguish for others, better put your own house in order.
See Things In Perspective
Don’t attach too much importance to what people do. Rather try to analyze who they are as a person. And gradually you would see a change in perception, sooner than later.
Every Obnoxious Act Is A Cry For Help
So there is this person who misses no opportunity to embarrass you, mock you, tease you and throw barbs your way. Get onto a different plane, and start assuming that there must be a reason for this obnoxious behavior. And you would see the magical transformation from reverse hatred to compassion!
Be Kind
Nothing works like this. An act of kindness on your part for the person who dislikes you leaves him/her stunned. And even the cruelest heart would melt one day.
Ignore Hatred
Behave as if you don’t even notice the hatred the other person is having for you. And be nice and sweet to them, rather than giving them the satisfaction of thinking that you really care about their dislike for you. With their hatred getting no response, you would soon see a sea change of emotion.
It’s Never Too Late
If someone has a genuine grievance against you, don’t hold yourself back from apologizing. Saying sorry and moving on is the best way to deal with the situation. Make sure it doesn’t happen again, and you would see their hatred for you vanishing.
It’s Their Problem, Not Yours
Never hate the person back. Remember hatred is their problem, don’t let it become yours. Rather let love and compassion define you.
There are always more things to like in a person than dislike. So, live better!
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